Telltale signs: 8 ways to tell if he is flirting with you

by Heather Jensen

Couple flirting over cocktails

What about his attempts to impress you? Does he do this all of the time? That’s another great way to tell if he is flirting with you!

We get a lot of comments on ways to tell if a guy is flirting with you and what signs to spot. Well, I’ve decided to compile all of the answers right here! These are my top 8 ways to tell if a guy is flirting with you and what signs you really need to be on the lookout for! After all, if he is flirting with you, that could mean that he likes you, right?

1. HE CONFIDES IN YOU

One of the surefire ways to tell if a guy is flirting with you is that he constantly confides in you. You are the person that he is always going to. You are the person that he tells all of his secrets to. That’s one definite sign that he not only likes you, but he is flirting with you!

2. LEAVES DANGLING MESSAGES

Does he leave a lot of dangling messages when you are around? Things like ‘So, you’re doing … what this weekend?’ This probably means that he really wants to know exactly what you are doing and if you maybe want to make plans with him! This is a great opening line and a line that guys use all of the time!

3. EXTREMELY THOUGHTFUL

Is he super thoughtful when it comes to you? Meaning, he gives you flowers, makes sure you have meds when you are sick and really tries to make sure that everything is okay with you. If he does all of this, all of the time, it’s a clear sign that he is flirting with you!

4. TREATS YOU DIFFERENTLY THAN HE TREATS HIS FRIENDS

How does he treat you when you are in a group of his friends? Does he treat you completely different and really try to keep you close? Oh yes, that is one of the surefire signs that he is constantly flirting with you and hey, that he likes you too!

5. ATTEMPTS TO IMPRESS YOU

What about his attempts to impress you? Does he do this all of the time? That’s another great way to tell if he is flirting with you! If he comes up with all of the crazy stories and really tries to show up his friends when he is in front of you, that’s honestly a great way to tell if he is flirting!

6. DEFENDS YOU

If someone is picking on you or hurting your feelings, does your crush jump to defend you? Does he make sure that nobody else in the world picks on you? That’s a sure way to tell that he not only likes you, but also that he is flirting with you!

7. USES HIS SENSE OF HUMOR

How does he use his sense of humor? Does he tease you? Pick on you just a little bit? These are all signs that he is flirting with you! Signs that he actually likes you a lot! Take a look at how he really acts and how he always tries to make you laugh to really see if he is flirting with you!

8. CALLS/TEXTS/EMAILS YOU CONSTANTLY

Finally, does he call you, text you, email you all of the time? That’s not just a sign that he likes you, but it’s also a sign that he is constantly flirting with you! That doesn’t mean that he needs to text you first or call you first, but if he is responding back quickly, look out, he likes you!

While figuring out exactly when a guy likes you or is flirting with you is hard, knowing what to look for should help! So, what other tips that a guy likes you should you watch out for?

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